Approaching girls in big groups (Confidence Boost) tricks and advice!

If you have read my previous posts on approaching girls in person, or approaching women at a bar, you will know I am a genius when it comes to this stuff. Ok, maybe not a genius, but I get the job done, and I’m here to help you. Again, I have said it in another post, stay away from telling a girl you are an artist or writer when talking to them. Only 15 year olds will go for them lines, and I don’t want you to end up in jail because of me. If you remember me saying this, well when it comes to approaching girls in big groups, the entire game has changed. Forget everything I have ever told you, its useless in this scenario, anything goes. For those of you who don't want to forget though, here's a random disclaimer...

Now let's begin...

First off, girls in big groups are a lot less serious, they have a lot more confidence when talking to strangers, they will even speak to the creepiest of guys, its crazy. I challenge you to dress up like Freddy Krueger, and talk to a group of girls. It’s no longer creepy, it’s an ice breaker. Ok so since you probably don’t have a Freddy Krueger outfit at your disposal in the blink of an eye, here is how to approach this group. And a minor disclaimer, this is A LOT easier if you have a wing man. The plan is to approach these women, and do you remember the line I taught you in the previous post? If you havn’t read that post yet I don’t even know what you’re doing here to be honest, but it’s cool I forgive you, I will repeat the line…. “Excuse me ladies, can I ask you guys a real random question?” Alternatively if you are with a friend a better line to use would be “Excuse me ladies, can you settle a debate I’m having with my buddy here?” You are pretty much guaranteed a response. The only time it’s not guaranteed is if you follow them down a dark ally, or drive up beside them and drag them into a car… These are definitely nono’s.

Ok so you have got them intrigued now, “what could this million dollar question be” they think to themselves? Throw them the most random sh*t you can think of. “Who do you prefer, Malcolm X, or Malcolm in the Middle?” Now you have them in the palm of your hand, create an entire conversation around whatever question it was you asked. So if you were to ask “Does a spoon full of sugar REALLY help the medicine go down?” Chances are there will not be a unanimous answer, in which case you side with the minority, and give them high fives. Debate begun, enjoy! If by some fluke they unanimously unite, and give the same response. It’s your job to make them think, “Ok but if it does help the medicine go down like you say… then how come….” And you get the jist of it, I refuse to give you all of my knowledge in one post.

These are a few tips, hopefully they helped, if they didn’t, you’re not using them correctly. Even a mute could pull this off. Have fun with it, and remember… Super villains are people too!

Approaching a woman at a bar or club (Dealing with Rejection)

Good evening or morning guys, today I am going to give you all the answers for approaching that hotty at the bar. We have all played it out in our heads, what we would do and say. But in reality, the music is too loud, or she just isn’t interested, or she’s actually a man with long hair (That’s never happened to me though, let’s not jump to conclusions.) Most blogs will give you the generic list of be confident, dress well, make eye contact and come across as a strong man. Well I’m gonna show you how to pick up that hotty without being confident, dressing well or making eye contact. If you still feel this is impossible after reading my last blog post, here’s a random disclaimer…

Now let’s begin…                           

First of all, arrive to the bar late, NEVER on time, here’s why. If you arrive to a bar or club on time, you have to deal with the awkward moments where there are only a few people at the bar. Now if you are ballin, you can just wait by the bar for the girl you like to arrive and just splurt out “I’m about to get me a shot, and you’re standing next to me, so what shot are you having?” But if you’re not balling, you don’t want to compete with them guys, when you’re more advanced at this then sure, head straight into battle they won’t stand a chance.

So here is the fool-proof strategy to getting that pretty young thang. Arrive later, by this time the hot women at the bar have already been spoken to by tons of guys more than once. So when they see you for the first time 3 hours later, they will be thinking “oooo, fresh meat”. I dunno, maybe its just the venues I go to, but this usually works. You wait till the end of the night, this is when you can go over and ask her “Hey, why are you chilling by yourself”. Because they have already seen you, and you didn’t approach her earlier with the other thirsty guys, you have already earned some points, she’s all yours bro.

The best thing to do when you are trying to kill those 3 hours inside the bar, is make it seem like you are having the most fun in there with your boys, or whoever you came with. Even if these are a bunch of guys you hired to pretend to be your friends for the night, you make sure all of you look like you are having a great time. Nobody wants to be left out of the party, so you will have pairs of girls that came alone looking to get in with you guys. Works every time. One time me and a group of my friends decided to have a dance battle. It got messy, it got silly, in fact it got pretty amazing because we are all semi-pro breakdancers, but even our non breaker friends were involved. Once it ended, an overwhelming sense of “Any lady in here is mine” came over me. Now obviously you probably aren’t a breaker, but it wasn’t the fact that we were dancers, it’s the fact that we were having a good time, and others wanted to join.

Enjoy yourself, and others will want to be a part of your fun. When you see somebody so care free and enjoying life, you may envy them, but you also want to learn their secrets. Same sh*t different toilet amigo. So have fun with these, and remember… Chocolate is the devils toothpaste!

Part 3 coming tomorrow.